Monday 30 November 2009

~i'm worth a lot~

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question, "What kind of man are you looking for?"

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking, "Do you really want to know?"

Reluctantly, he said "Yes."

She began to expound..., "As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man….. or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, what can you bring to the table?"

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life."

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain.

She said, "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive... he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself."

When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You’re asking a lot."

She replied, "I'm worth a lot."

To every woman who're worth a lot.... and every man who needs to know.

copied from my friend, hidayah wahidah.thanks :)
it hv same way of my thought..

Sunday 29 November 2009

Jika aku jatuh hati...


Ya Allah jika aku jatuh cinta,
cintakanlah aku pada seseorang
yang melabuhkan cintanya padamu,
agar bertambah kekuatanku untuk menyintaiku..

Ya Muhaimin jika aku jatuh hati,
izinkanlah aku menyeuntuh hati seseorang
yg hatinya tertaut padamu agar aku
tidak terjatuh aku dalam jurang cinta nafsu..

Ya Rabbana jika aku jatuh hati,
jagalah hatiku padanya agar
tidak berpaling daripada
hatimu...

Ya Rabbul Izzati jika aku rindu,
rindukanlah aku pada
seseorang yang merindui
syahid di jalanmu..

Ya Allah jika aku menikmati cinta
kekasihmu,janganlah kenikmatan indahnya
bermunajat di seprtiga malam t
terakhirmu..

Ya Allah jika aku jatuh hati pada
kekasihmu,jangan birkan aku
terlatih dan terjatuh dalam perjalanan
panjang menyeru manusia kepadamu..

Ya Allah jika kau halalkan aku
merindui kekasihmu,jangan biarkan aku
melampaui batas sehingga melupakan aku pada cinta
hakiki dan rindu rindu abadi hanya kepadamu..
..amin...

facebook vs friendster

hmm.. someone just ask me.. what make facebook better than friendster?? i don't know to answer it.. bcause the first time i change fom fs to fb.. just because my damn university block it.. but they doesnt block fb.. but.. after a month.. so many people using fb.. it become traffic jam.. then my damn university block it.. i'm frustrated.. so frustrated.. then i stop using it for awhile.. and now.. active like devil now.. ahahhaa.. so addicted.. demmm..

so here i list it.. why i choose facebook than friendster..
  1. frustration from previous one.. hate fs as i hate him... demm..
  2. fb more addicted, make me forget to everything
  3. easy to use
  4. more games and application
  5. wonderful quiz
  6. relationship between friends and family member become more closer
  7. gossip can easily distributed
  8. and also important imformation maaa...
i dont know what others thought bout this social network.. but that i was..

Saturday 28 November 2009

hari raya eidul adha 2009




hidangn hari raya
hari pertama: soto, nasi himpit, mee, puding sntan mkn ngn laici.
hari kedua: nasi putih, kari kambing, aym masak merah, sayur campur, sambal tomato.
hari ketiga: laksa peneng.. ahaa.. tk tau ejaan btul camner..




raya kali nie gabungn 3 buah rumah. kami msk sama2 demi dptkan suasana hari raya.. wlaupun tak dpt wat korban tapi berjaya tumbangkan seekor kambing dgn sebagian besar daging tersebut di sedekahkan... (bgus tul kami nih..uhuhu)

k.. qis nk tido lu.. tadi study pasal DM tipe 1.. lagi sebulan nk exam.. uhu
insyaallah.. qis akn ready awl tuk exam kali nie.. tak buat mcm exam2 sblumye.. cayouk...

Saturday 7 November 2009

i miss u

rindu sangat2..
teringat masa2 kita bersama,
suka, duka, kau slalu ada..

rindu sangat2...
dengan setiap gelak tawamu,
dgn lawakmu,
yang sentiasa menceriakan hariku,

rindu sgt2..
dgn setiap kata nasihatmu padaku,,,
dgn teguranmu pada setiap kesalahn yg aku lakukan,
kau pnh puas nasihatiku walau aku tak pnh mau mendengarkannya..

rindu sgt2
dgn luahan hatimu ttg org sekelilingmu,
walau kau tak pnh puas hati dgn mereka,
kau tetap teruskan demi mnjaga hati mereka..

rindu sgt2
dgn gaya tidurmu,
dgn dengkuran yg slalu menggaguiku,
kini aku ingin mendengarnya...

rindu sgt2...
semua kenangn yg pnh kita lalui,,
aku takkan pernah melupkannya,
walaupun kini kau telah tiada..

aku mengingatinya,
setiap kenangan kita..
selagi hayat dikandung badan,
aku akan sentiasa mengingatinya..


kaulah sahabat,
kaulah teman hidupku,
kaulah segala2nya bagiku,
takkan pernah ada yg bisa menggantikanmu,
setiap kenanganmu terpahat kuat di dalam hatiku..

semoga kau tenang di sana..
walau kau kini berkeseorangan..
tapi yakinlah..
kau sentiasa ada didalam hatiku dan kwn2 yg lain
kau sentiasa ada setiap masa dihati kami
sentiasa menemani kami sehari..
melakukan setiap aktiviti bersama2..
kami takkan pernah melupaimu..
karena kami rindu sekali padamu.. laila..
we love u.. and always love u..